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Rihanna, Chris Brown: Singer Finally Speaks Out About Controversial Relationship

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It's been three years since Chris Brown infamously assaulted Rihanna on the eve of the 2009 Grammy Awards -- and the duo is still making headlines. Now, in Elle magazine's upcoming May issue, Rihanna finally opens up about her current relationship with her abusive ex-boyfriend following the release of two musical collaborations and speculation that the couple have secretly rekindled their romance.

"I respect what other people have to say. The bottom line is that everyone thinks differently," the Elle cover girl said in reaction to critics' opinions of her connection with Brown. "It's very hard for me to accept, but I get it. People end up wasting their time on the blogs or whatever, ranting away, and that's all right. I don't hate them for it."

"I'm still going to do what I want to do," Ri insisted unapologetically. Despite her decision to go public with her as-yet-undefined relationship with Brown, Rihanna insisted the brutal assault of 2009 definitely had a lasting impact on her. "I was going through the hardest time of my life. I was angry, sad, confused, torn. I was still in love. And I needed to talk about it," Ri admitted.

She channeled her emotions into her 2009 Rated R album. "That was the only way I could get peace, because it was in my head, and I couldn't leave it there."

While the trauma left its scars, the singer says it encouraged her to finally be herself while living in the public eye. "It gave me guns. I was like, 'Well, f---.' They know more about me than I want them to know. It's embarrassing. But that was my opening. That was my liberation, my moment of bring it. I wanted people to know who I am. Whatever they take that to be, good or bad, I just want them to know the truth."

And truthfully, Rihanna is happy that her fans and critics alike are aware of her reconciliation with her former abuser. "It's like, one less skeleton in the closet, one less burden, one less secret; now you know that, so you can say what you want about it. I don't have anything to hide."

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battinglashes

Moron.

April 05 2012 at 8:04 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Mbomcar

She can do whatever she wants; but history shows that if a man has it in him to be physically abusive to a woman once; he's more likely than not, to repeat the behavior. So what I would say to her if he does it again, keep it to yourself. If you're foolish enough to go back to this man, then we don't want to hear about it; and there''ll be no pity for you then.

April 05 2012 at 7:24 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Ms. Le Flore

I guess I will never understand. I mean I get them making a song for publicity/money...but a relationship? I simply do not understand.

April 05 2012 at 6:22 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Knowing Jesus

Its her life.

April 05 2012 at 4:22 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
cherokee1414

I hope she at least learned to bob and weeve!!!

April 05 2012 at 3:08 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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ullrules

Ha!!!

April 05 2012 at 3:54 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Mark Lathom

lol, or float like a butterfly and sting like a bee.

April 05 2012 at 5:00 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
bmitche

"CAN'T HELP LOVING THAT MAN OF MINE"

April 05 2012 at 2:32 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
richagrig

Nope, I don't think any part of a relatationship is healthy with the past in violence. Not our business to hold judgement either.

April 05 2012 at 2:15 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Mr. Needles Ca.

ths chimp is going to attack again....so dont cry when he chews you again..

April 05 2012 at 1:31 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
gladys

next time keep it to yourself, dont make such a big deal of him "abusing you" there are people out there who go through real abuse and dont have half the help or support you have.

April 05 2012 at 1:18 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
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rpattonhrc

"Real abuse"--as if he didn't really abuse her? He punched her in the face repeatedly, and he bit her! She needed medical attention. That's real abuse. And she wasn't the one to go public--she didn't announce it--people follow her everywhere, so there was no way people weren't going to know, especially when he did it right in the car, in public. People should know when someone commits that kind of abuse. I personally couldn't go back to someone after an incident like that, and I understand the criticism, because people tend to repeat their mistakes until they learn. That said, forgiveness isn't easy, but she apparently has forgiven him.

April 05 2012 at 2:53 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Shawn

What ever...they are both toxic in my world...I could care less what the do to each other

April 05 2012 at 12:25 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
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