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Kylie Minogue, Cancer Battle Still Causes Singer to Feel 'Incredible Anger' -- Potent Quotables

Kylie Minogue CancerPascal Le Segretain, Getty Images for amfAR

"Over time, people have a tendency to forget about it. Not me. A day does not go by without me thinking about it. Just looking in a mirror is enough -- the scars are moral and physical. There are days when I feel an incredible anger, others when I say that I was very lucky in my misfortune. I always try to present an optimistic picture. At first, I look very open, but basically, I'm pretty reserved. I knew I was strong, I was fortunate to be surrounded by people who really loved me. I feel like a cat, having had several lives. In my career as in my personal life, I made enough bad decisions to land me in deep water. Finally, I haven't got out too badly." -- Kylie Minogue

Kylie Minogue was diagnosed with breast cancer back in 2005 at the age of 36. Now 43 and in remission, the Aussie pop star tells Paris Match magazine she's still haunted by the ordeal.





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radster

Continuing to think about cancer only keeps you in its grasp and it will return.. Even the bible tells us( As a man/woman think...so is he or she). You have to forget it and move on. We get what we give persistent thought to.

May 29 2012 at 11:58 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
parkerfu

I'm a survivor of an extremely aggressive breast cancer. Both breasts are gone and there are lingering side effects. Do I feel anger? Sorrow? Pity? No. I look at my scars and I see a SURVIVOR. Cancer picked me...oh well...fight it, beat it, and move on.

May 29 2012 at 11:20 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Courtland

in actuality, one should SEE THE BLESSINGs that come with the dis~ease ... for it forces us to look further within ourselves as to what we are manifesting through our lives, m ore importantly, our thoughts! We are responsible for our own Body Temples ... and if we carry a node of anger, fear, etc .... we are only manifesting more of the same ... Love your dis~ease ~ find the Blessings in the lessons ... the wisdoms you have learned ... therein you will HEAL your Heartspace ... Your Body Temple!
~*~
from one bc sister to another ~ change your thoughts ... change the dynamics of your LIFE .....
~*~

Love Blessings be with You!!

May 29 2012 at 2:57 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
kesler123

If we had cancer yes, we are survivors, but we also have a right to any feelings we want. I am happy to be a survivor and grateful for everyday that I have and I am ALIVE! I am allowed to be angry at what I endured as a cancer patient. Yes, I am mad I got cancer, I am mad about how much the treatments took out of me, what the treatments did to me mentally/physically, I am mad at what my family had to watch me go through and what they had to see/feel. No one has the right to judge any cancer patient on how they feel. Walk a mile in our shoes. If we want to be angry then we will be angry. It does not mean that we are angry everyday of our lives and I don't think Kylie is either. When you have a serious disease, it is always lingering in the back of your mind....is it back....will it come back. No matter how positive you stay it is there. I feel bad for all of you who have lost a loved one to cancer or any other serious disease. I imagine if you did lost a loved one to cancer there are moments that you are angry that cancer took them from you. I imagine you are not happy everyday either. To Kylie Minogue, I applaude you for voicing how you feel. Too often we survivors are expected to be happy and gratful all the time being we have survived. Keep up that smiling face everyday...every moment. We are survivors yes....but it is still painful mentally....years later.

May 29 2012 at 1:33 PM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply
gladys

cancer and any other illness that leaves emotional or physical scars is devastating, for people who claim to not be angry or think about more power to them, but as someone who has been to hell and is still there I dont know how to not be angry or wondered why I wake up in the morning, I just dont want to be here anymore I dont know how to cope and they dont make a happy pill for that.

May 29 2012 at 1:33 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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jorwmu

Hi Gladys I can totally relate. In my case, I developed 2 lumps in my neck that then spread to my armpits and groin. I was so convinced (internet) I had lymphoma that I drank vodka everyday until I ended up in the hospital (twice) with liver failure. I didn't want to be here anymore either but I dropped everything (not much), and flew home to be with my family. After 10 months of cat scans, blood tests, and FINALLY a biopsy, I don't have cancer! I thought that I did though so that was hell on earth. I now have to deal with liver problems and at some point, (could be tomorrow), my liver may fail and I may die. I'm working again, sober, and just trying to find a little bit of happiness b4 I die and I'm only 36. Hang in there and give it some time. Eventually you'll get used to whatever ails you and you can get on with life. I used suboxone for the blues for a while and it really numbed me and helped with the depression and anxiety. Yes I was addicted to it but better to be addicted then suicidal:) Take care

May 29 2012 at 1:56 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
BarB

I totally agree with you and to say it doesn't affect the rest of your life, is living as an ostrich...but, you have to try and stay and there is no happy pill for it, just an 'accceptance' pill' and some days it is harder to accept than to make something different out of it...just have to 'succeed' in trying..that is all that can be done.. some have been more affected than others where they have lingering consequences and maybe and those have to be respected as sometimes very hard to accept by 'going on with life', when it will never be the same...EVER

May 29 2012 at 6:45 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
festive

As someone who has been living with cancer for 13 years, I can speak from experience. I do not come from a place of anger but one of good fortune. I have watched my children grow, I now have grandchildren and my health is good, the cancer is in chemical remission. When I was diagnosed with recurrence and became stage 4, I saw a counselor to help me through the process of grieving my old life and embracing the "new normal". It takes time but it allowed me to move forward with my life and to stop waiting for the cancer to come back. It's been a few years now, and I know how blessed I am. I live each day fully and have tried to help others who are going through this.

May 29 2012 at 1:07 PM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply
kbean645

I was 31yo when I was dx, 4 years ago. It will always be with us and we are allowed to feel however we want about it, no matter how many years out. Cancer has taken so much from us but it teaches us much more than we ever thought, about ourselves and others. Don't ever let someone tell you how you should feel. All we can do is enjoy the time we have and try our best to move from survivor to thriver. We all have our battles and they don't need to be compared. Live, Love and Laugh :)

May 29 2012 at 10:41 AM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
antijunkie

Just thank God your alive my sister died at 43 she fought it 5 years, so please dont complain

May 29 2012 at 8:35 AM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
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festive

sometimes people are so wrapped up in their own grief they are unable to see the bigger picture. I'm sorry for your loss. Your sister was too young to be taken from her family.

May 29 2012 at 1:09 PM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply
JOY OF LIVING...

Complaining is useless. My daughter-in-law died at the age of 29. She was diagnosed 6 months after she and my son were married. She died 4 years later and fought it without complaining the entire 4 years. She left a legacy for those left behind like me, diagnosed and treated for ovarian cancer 12 years ago.

May 29 2012 at 1:57 PM Report abuse +2 rate up rate down Reply
MiracleDetox

Her anger needs to be directed at the AMA and drug companies who are withholding the natural and safe cures and hiding behind false research and using confusion to keep the public wondering. We have always had cancer cures, these companies need to be charged with war crimes against the world. Learn the truth and take charge of your own health.

May 29 2012 at 8:21 AM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
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Deb

Kylie, you probably won't be fortunate enough to read the kind words of encouragement from women like PioneerSusan or myself but I will give it a try. I agree with PioneerSusan you need spiritual guidance instead of looking at having cancer and what you went through so negative. You need to learn to stop and count your blessings. Part of beating cancer is additude, get a good one and leave what happened in the past. Stop being so full of anger it's a waste of your energy. I know this because I am a cancer survivor too.

May 29 2012 at 7:47 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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